Thinking of love as a relation narrows down its meaning. If we think that love is a relationship in which two persons have to be in love with each other then that is not love, it is a mere transaction. My Saviour Jesus Christ died on cross for me and in return HE dosen't ask for anything HE just want that I live a righteous life by submitting myself unto HIM.
So how can love be overrated when love is all about just giving respect and earning respect. It is the best instance I can ever give of an unconditional love. There is no greater love than Christ because HE died for me on the cross for my sins so that I may be saved. When I say don't expect anything, it means one should not seek materliastic things but certainly you deserve to be loved and respect after giving all of you to your loved ones. It may sound cliche but a love that dosen't expect anything is precise and favourable which clearly dosen't mean just give and get nothing in back. there are endless reasons where love can be defined because there endless people who makes love more and complicated. Some makes it complicated, some dive into it badly, some crosses their limits. Personally I believe love is a pure connection between two hearts. Not in a ‘Oh jeez you’ve been out all day looking like this?’ kind of way, but more like, well, there really is no easy way to say this, in a ‘checking myself out’ kind of way! And guess what? I liked what I saw! Not only did I start seeing myself in mirrors – I started looking at myself in them. In and out of public washrooms with such precision that I am certain the mirrors barely had the chance to catch my reflection whilst I washed my hands in a frenzy. Seriously though, when it came to mirrors, I was equipped with ninja-like movement. More specifically, myself, in them! Previously I would avoid them with the same set of skills used to avoid that one Uncle who always seems to find you at family functions. Or should I say, I started noticing something. Anyway, around the time when I had accepted my astrological bearings, I started doing something else altogether new. It wasn’t so much about embracing being alone, but rather I just stopped caring about finding love. It just wasn’t meant to be for me! One day I even caught myself saying that, ‘it’s simply not in my stars!’ First of all, I know absolutely nothing about stars, other than the ones I would give when rating poorly chosen on-line products. I spent years looking for love in all the worst places, in all the wrong people. I was a slow learner when it came to loving myself.
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